What is it that you think would make your life or relationship or business better? What causes you distress? What is it you think you lack or would like to be different?
If someone thinks they just feel good, they do not have access to anything they want to change.
Do you ever hold on to things too long? Do you ever notice you just forgot because you put it out of your mind? Have you ever had a relationship that ended after you put a lot into it and it sucked?
Would you like to have relationships that may be awesome but you don’t have to depend on them to be OK, and yet you can be having a blast and great connection?
Is your sense of responsibility when a relationship doesn’t go well that you feel like it’s your fault?
Does that mean superficial relationships are best?
Does it mean some relationships are just learning experiences?
Does it mean some can be “forever”?
Do you use humor to make the pain less?
Do you think people who are trying to be responsible and achieve become serious, therefore they become risk averse?
What do you think would happen if you were curious and enjoyed the process, then were good and fun anyway?
As long as everything is going great, you feel great — or are you waiting for the other shoe to drop, dreading if it goes sideways? What goes up must come down. Can you be OK in the valley and the peak?
Ask your creative mind to give you three ways to reduce the pressure about getting it right and get the goal anyway. Is it all right with you to relax 1,000 times more than usual?
You don’t have to prove anything. You can have the pressure that used to be a 10. It’s OK if relationships come and go or stay and it feels so good? (Ho’oponopono, we teach.)
As you do this you begin to notice you have permission to grow and learn and only have to be as stimulated as you need to be to get it done — the best amount, not too much or too little, just right. Where there used to be a need in your heart can now be OK and full.
"Ask your creative mind to give you three ways to reduce the pressure about getting it right and get the goal anyway. Is it all right with you to relax 1,000 times more than usual?"
Look at the ceiling, love yourself. See the closure on those things and they will be behind you in time.
Are you finishing what you have been given?
Is it all right with you to let go of and no longer protect the old ways because you can be safe and get what you need?
Try not to worry about it like you used to. Are you OK, confused or blank? You’ll see whites of eyes clear, your blood pressure is not the same.
You’ll know when your unconscious mind is hypnotized and can get out of what used to get in your way. These are universal maturity themes. Hypnosis works. I hope these thoughts have increased your curiosity. We are here when you are ready.